For the first one, I would definitely go for

as the outright correct choice. (there is a three sided wait which is more ideal so there's a clear preference for

to

(and

to

discard) ). Sometimes you have to ignore tenpai efficiency in the short term to increase your chance of winning in the long term and this is one case I definitely recommend doing so. The key to me thinking so is the

shape, you definitely want to avoid a kan-

wait. when I look at this hand, I look at where I want a jyantou (pair) and where I want my mentsu (sequence or triplet) and

is a very good jyantou + mentsu shape and that's where i prefer to have my jyantou and by doing that avoid the kan-

wait. The clear advantage of

over

(jyantou kotei) is the flexibility in approach and the likelihood you'll end up with a good wait at tenpai. After the

discard you end up with

, from this if you draw

you get a very good tanyao pinfu 1-shanten. the only draw back to this is that you lose the tenpai from

or

draw to get a

wait. Comparing the two scenarios (

and

), with

there are 22 tiles that give you a very good tanyao guaranteed 1-shanten for you hand
or with

discard, 4 more tiles that you can get tenpai with or 8 tiles (

(not tanyao guaranteed) and

) to give you a double sided wait on the

shape. for both cases

gives you the same tenpai regardless of choice.
As you can see, by seeking for the highest tenpai probability in the short term, your missing out on alot of tiles that can give you a very good 1-shanten and probably a better winning probability in the long term. The only case I recommend seeking for the highest tenpai probability is when it's very late into the game and you need tenpai for the draw at the end or you think that you haven't got enough draws left to take advantage of the better 1-shanten.
Second one is definitely

or

,

preferred due to one

already being out and it being more dangerous as

is dora so you dont deal in to shapes like

+pair or

/

( also toimen has a fast

discard which 'usually' means higher probability for a

or

wait.)

discard can also be argued because

is east's safe tile. discarding

and going for tanyao is slowing your hand down as well as lowering your points potential, riichi pinfu's average score is close to around 3200 and kuitan currently is 1000 points guaranteed.
Third one I will throw

then

, the order is specific because if you get a red

next draw it's better to get a

pair with red

then a

again with a red

.
sorry for the long explanation and if you have any questions, please tell me and I will try to come back and answer them